Two Women Do Not a Lesbian Make

There are so many questions about sexuality and orientation, especially in light of “experience(s)”. I’ve read many a distraught woman’s blog regarding their confusion after an alcohol or drug induced close encounter with a best friend or caring emotions gone wild. They fret and worry over identity because of sexual satisfaction and an orgasm. Truth is, if you are into it and your partner (female or male, animate or inanimate) is giving you what you require to trigger your bliss, then you will have bliss. That should NOT shatter your existence and make you question everything you’ve ever believed about yourself.

Even if that partner becomes a living Starbucks to you, that is lust, darling, and pure yearning for more of those feel-good endorphines. Don’t use drugs – guess what? An orgasm gives you just as much of a chemical rush as cocaine. It’s all about the “feeling”. Ask anyone who runs about the infamous “runner’s high”. Same principle.

And sorry porn industry, throwing a bunch of women together in a mosh pit of sex is not a “lesbian” porn flick.  More like lesbian-impostors gone wild!

So, if you find yourself in an intimate situation with another woman, and enjoy it, don’t be surprised. No, you’re not a lesbian. You’re just a normal woman with a normally functioning body.  You see, it takes more than two women to make a lesbian.